How to choose sexy Lingerie

Your glossary to the sexiest styles and how to choose one compared to the other one.

There’s a whole lingerie lingo to get to know when you’re shopping. Chemise versus camisole, bustier versus corset—what’s the difference anyhow? We’ve got the lowdown on the most popular types of lingerie, and how to wear each lingerie style for your first night together as newlyweds and beyond.

Bikini
A sexy pair of underwear can stand solo or be paired with a matching cami or bra for a low-maintenance wedding night look. A bikini specifically is a classic cut. Its rise is low, but not too low, and it offers coverage in the back without getting into granny panty territory.

Seductive Comfort lace bikini

Bikini Underwear

 

 

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Seductive Comfort lace bikini

Seductive Comfort lace bikini

Low-rise bikini

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Bodysuit
Think: bra and underwear in one. (Sometimes you’ll see this called a teddy.) And even though a bodysuit offers more coverage than two separate pieces, it’s somehow sexier. Probably because it’s got “special occasion” written all over it, making it wedding night perfection.

bodysuit

Bodysuit

cute bodysuit

Handle bodysuit

strapless bodysuit

Strapless bodysuit

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Lingerie Bras
Obviously, you know what a bra is. A delicate bra and underwear set alone can make a sexy statement on the wedding night and can be worn in the future. Bras come in a variety of styles: triangle, push-up, demi, balconette and more—you can really choose whichever you love most. Look for a bra embellished with embroidery or lace, so it has that “just married” flair.

Bra

Underwired Bra

Violette collared bra

Embroidered tulle underwired Bra

Sugarbalconette bra

Balconette Bra

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Bralette
A bralette is a bra without underwire or other structural elements. They often work better for women who have smaller breasts, since they don’t offer much support. Though, we’re guessing you won’t have it on long postwedding, so lack of support may not be a deal breaker. Note that some bralettes don’t have clasp closures and need to be removed over your head.

 

triangle bralette

Triangle Bralette

Lace Bralette

Lace Bralette

 

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Bustier
Want to add extra va-va-voom to the wedding night? Wear this lingerie style to accentuate your cleavage and flatter your waist. A bustier is an extended bra top that usually covers all or most of the torso, though there are bustier bras that end well above the belly button. For an ultra-bridal look, go white and lacy. If you’re looking to pump up the sex appeal, go for a strappier style in black or red. Want something extra racy? Try attached garters, so you can add thigh-high stockings.

 

Lace bustier

Lace bustier

 

Sexy strapless floral lace push-up bustier

Sexy strapless floral lace push-up bustier

Madame X bustier

Madame X bustier

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Camisole (Cami) and Tap Short
A camisole (aka cami) is a lingerie tank top, usually with spaghetti straps. Choose one in a silky or satin fabric with lace accents for a luxe vibe, and pair it with tap shorts, which are lingerie short-shorts. Choose this look if you want something on the comfy side for the wedding night. It’s not as over-the-top sexy as some other types of lingerie, but it definitely will make you feel pampered. A cami could also be worn with a thong or any other underwear bottoms, to show a little more skin.


straight-neck cami

Straight-neck Cami

crochet halter cami and shorts sleep set

Crochet halter Cami and shorts sleep set

silk-satin pajama set

Silk-satin pajama set

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Chemise
A chemise is a short slip dress that’s simple to literally slip into and can be paired with a matching bikini or thong. It’ll make you feel super feminine and flirty—kind of like a wedding dress, only skimpier.

embroidered floral V-neck chemise

Embroidered floral V-neck chemise

Floral chemise

Floral chemise

stretch silk chemise

Stretch silk chemise

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Corset
In the past, corsets tangibly cinched the waist and had grommets and ties that would be pulled tight, squeezing the midsection. And some corsets today are shapewear that help smooth the appearance of the torso. But a wedding night corset isn’t about slimming the waist under clothes. It’s about offering a flattering look that stands on its own and can be a throwback to the look of corsets of the past. Some may have boning in them (totally fine) but we seriously recommend avoiding any lingerie styles that include painful cinching. For your wedding night, look for a corset with details such as lace, grommets, satin straps or attached garters.

corset

Corset

pretty latex bridal basque

Pretty latex bridal basque

Sexy crochet lace corset

Sexy crochet lace corset

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Garter Belt
A garter belt (aka suspender belt) has clips that allow it to hold up thigh-high stockings, and you can add it to almost any type of lingerie. Match it with a coordinating bra and panty to take it from ordinary to super sultry.

suspender belt

Garter Belt Suspender Belt

garter belt

Garter Belt

Daizy floral-lace suspender belt

Daisy floral-lace suspender belt

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Hipster
This underwear cut sits low on the hips and covers the back side with a little extra length on the bottom (but not as long as a boy short). It has more coverage and lends a more youthful and trendy look than traditional cuts, like the bikini, do. A lace style can be paired with a matching bra.

Hipster

Hipster

hipster briefs

Hipster briefs

sheer lace hipster

Sheer Lace Hipster

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Robe
A luxe robe can be worn pre-wedding while you’re getting ready. Afterward, in the honeymoon suite, open it to reveal the sexy underthings of your choice—or nothing at all. Skip the typical terry cloth bathrobe and choose a more luxurious fabric.

satin kimono robe

Satin kimono robe

blush lace wrapper

Blush Lace Wrapper

lace duster robe

Lace Duster Robe

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Romper
In the lingerie world, a romper is basically a cami and tap short in one. In other words, a one-piece with short-shorts attached. They tend to have a playful vibe and may be made of cotton or other comfy material and are cozy enough to lounge around in the morning after the wedding. Others are made of mesh or tulle, and are see-through strictly for sex appeal.

romper

Romper

lace-trimmed stretch-modal jersey playsuit

Lace-trimmed stretch-modal jersey play-suit

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Thong
Thong underwear is super skimpy, with only a small strip of fabric in the back to show off your back side. On the wedding night, you can pair your thong with a cami, chemise, bustier, corset and/or a garter belt and thigh-highs—or nothing at all.

Lace Thong with rhinestone mini veil

Lace Thong with rhinestone mini veil

strappy thong

Strappy Thong

thong panty

Thong Panty

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